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I Feel Like I Am Being Their Dad Rather Than Just a Parent

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I Feel Like I Am Being Their Dad Rather Than Just a Parent
I Feel Like I Am Being Their Dad Rather Than Just a Parent

Life changes imposed by the pandemic have altered the role of fathers, and in many cases for the better. ‘I always thought I was a hands-on dad, but the change has shown me how much more I can do,’ says Gavin Fox. And, it is easier to say, I feel like I am being their dad rather than just a parent.

Traditionally – and a tradition many of us are wholly against, men and women alike – mothers have held a greater share of the childcare, and the majority of the mental load. But there appears to be a somewhat welcome transition occurring as a result of the pandemic. As fathers are more physically present in the home, it affords a change in how we perceive these conventional gender roles of parenting. […]

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The wall of tradition is coming to an end, and millennials have cemented and taken on the mantle of gender equality. Fathers in general are more involved in their children’s lives more than ever before and now with the pandemic even more so – and they like it.

But women still carry out more of the responsibilities at home. Women still do more housework than men even if they earn more money than their husband. The scales of society rules are still tipped in man’s favour, but equality is in the pipeline.

Simple things like not having to be in the office meant not having to be out the door before the kids woke up.

Not having to do all that has allowed me time to have breakfast with the kids, which is something really small but now I couldn’t think of not doing that.

It allowed my wife to be more relaxed going to work, knowing that the kids were being looked after.

I Feel Like I Am Being Their Dad Rather Than Just a Parent
Fathers in general are more involved in their children’s lives more than ever before. And they like it. Photograph: iStock

For many dads who may miss going to the office, being present in the family life “certainly outweighs” the rat race which saw us struggling to get to the office for 8am.

The kids are enjoying having me around and I am enjoying being there and being more available for my family. These days, I am 100 per cent happier as a person and as a father. I feel sad in a way, and that is because, I wasn’t around far more earlier in my kids life, when they were younger.


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